Have you ever cheated on a partner?

[Richard]

After our marriage became sexless after the birth of our 2nd.daughter,I started to have an affair with a woman who was in a similar position to myself,her husband had ED, it was fantastic to have sex again and she loved the way that after I cum, in a while I was hard again and fucking her.We had two happy years but I ended it because she became too possessive and wanted me to leave my wife and daughters and set up home with her. The girls were still very young and I wasn't willing to sacrifice my family.
When we started our affair we agreed that it would not interfere with either of our marriages, we both got satisfaction and had good sex which neither of us had before we met.  So masturbation has been my sex life since those times.

Wow. I could have written this. Thanks for sharing.

Thanks for your message, the hardest bit for me was being able to tell the woman I was having an affair with that I was breaking off our relationship. One part of my brain was telling me don't break it off,think of all that fantastic sex you will be giving up.After telling her I went home and hugged my two girls and at that moment I knew I had done the right thing.I still miss her and when I get into bed and my wife isn't interested in me or my advances memories of what I had in the affair come flooding back.I still get hard thinking about her and usually end up masturbating to a fantastic orgasm.

[Sandra]

[Lickysucki69xo]

I can't physically do that. Ill only play in person  with her just how I am. X

[Max]

It is a cold and emotionless business transaction.

Not necessarily.

It is difficult to speculate as to why married men visit prostitutes, because the reasons are so varied. A man may, of course, simply be "bored" and consider an emotionless business deal not really cheating. (We're not discussing ethics here, just possibilities.) He may, in fact, have a partner who refuses to be sexual, while he refuses to abstain. Or, he may desire certain things that he is embarrassed to ask his wife to participate in.

I have visited a sex worker.
I dislike the term prostitute because we are all prostitutes. 
We sell our time to an employer and do, in exchange, that which they tell us to do.

Anyway, she was lovely, in a way I had not expected.
Penetration wasn't my key aim. I wanted to explore her body and to marvel at its intimate beauty as well as to experience her enjoyment.

I wanted her to cum herself as well as through using my fingers and tongue. 
I wanted to lick her for ages, to enjoy her taste and the deliciousness of it.

Most of the time she was aroused and orgasming, and I was a very willing observer and helper. And we built quite a rapport.
In the end she had done things to me that I couldn't have asked anyone I know.
I gave her my body and she used it for my pleasure.  Well, for hers too but she focused on giving me amazing orgasms and feelings.
 
She had fucked me with her toys and after we had had sex, she squatted over my face and let all lovely juices flow out and into my mouth before cumkissing me. 

We met about 7 or 8 times and afterwards, we kept in touch by skype, watching each other in various places, masturbating. 

So, it can be emotional, very emotional and everything but a cold, simple, business transaction.       

I still wank thinking about her and whilst I watch her videos. And a few times, spontaneously, she has sent me a new video, once with one of her friends.

There's a few other things I would like to experience.
I'd like to do them with a girl or woman, who's not a sex worker but who wants to try new stuff herself.  I'd love a mutual anything goes sexual thing, such that we both get to know everything about our own sexuality.   

[Sandra]

  Max

You dont see her any more?

[Max]

Max

You dont see her any more?

Nope. She moved away though occasionally, she will still send me a new video if only to show me how she uses a new toy she has purchased.  The excitement has faded somewhat, hence my need to find someone new, whose keen to learn about herself and would like to explore my body.

[Max]

I'm not seeking an 'affair'.
Just experience with an adult and mature woman, for whom nothing sexual is taboo, where masturbation is as 'normal' a thing as shaking hands on meeting. And I hope we'll do more than masturbating together. :)

[Sandra]

I'm not seeking an 'affair'.
Just experience with an adult and mature woman, for whom nothing sexual is taboo, where masturbation is as 'normal' a thing as shaking hands on meeting. And I hope we'll do more than masturbating together. :)

And what about the woman you are cohabiting with?

[Max]

I'm not seeking an 'affair'.
Just experience with an adult and mature woman, for whom nothing sexual is taboo, where masturbation is as 'normal' a thing as shaking hands on meeting. And I hope we'll do more than masturbating together. :)

And what about the woman you are cohabiting with?

Sex with her is off limits. She's got no interest and I really won't cope if my right hand is my only sex.

[Sandra]

So she IS 'a friend', flat mate ?

Does she have sex with other guys? or is it just you she does not want sex with?