How did you learn to masturbate?

[Sandra]

Now as a parent today, I'd be worried by the kind of people I chatted with then, but in those days, it wasn't seen as a problem, not for boys at all. I didn't have a camera so the guy never saw me masturbating, but I had to tell him how I felt, and we'd swap porn pictures we found.

Nice way to learn 

The internet has moved on a lot, you have to be a lot more alert these days.

[virgin60]

When I was 11, I overheard my (3-years-older) brother and his friend talking about sex. I was curious what it felt like. That night, in bed, I did the best job of making a pussy with my hand and stuck my penis in it. After that, I was hooked.

[Sandra]

When I was 11, I overheard my (3-years-older) brother and his friend talking about sex. I was curious what it felt like. That night, in bed, I did the best job of making a pussy with my hand and stuck my penis in it. After that, I was hooked.

That would work 

[OnanistUK]

I remember it like yesterday: my first masturbation session and I managed to spunk (even though I wasn't entirely sure what was going on).

The reason I remember it so well it was the day before my 12th birthday. Not having an older brother and being somewhat shy - this being a time before the Internet was barely thought of - I used to play with my little penis not really knowing what to do with it. One afternoon when I had the house to myself I was lying naked on the bed and really not properly wanking my bald little cock whilst thinking of my favourite crush at school - a girl called Christine P - my penis shot off with all this white cream and an incredible tingling feeling from head to toe.

Within half an hour, I had recovered and managed a second wank (oh to be that young again) this time thinking about my mate Danny's mum. The next day, being my 12th birthday, when blowing out the candles on my cake, I wish that I could have sex with a girl, but I had to wait a couple of years until that happened.

For the next year or so, I had an obsession about thinking about getting a woman pregnant: I didn't want to be a dad: I just wanted it to be known that I could father a child. I even had a fantasy where the pregnant police woman who visited our school to do safety lectures was knocked up by me and she was having my baby.

[Sandra]

(even though I wasn't entirely sure what was going on)

It seems a lot of guys are surprised by the feeling and cumming the first time.

my penis shot off with all this white cream and an incredible tingling feeling from head to toe.

[will1939]

  I clearly remember a friend showing me how to masturbate at around age 7 but never thought much about it then. At age 9 another friend who was about 3 years older than me asked me if I wanted him to show me how to jerk off so I said sure.  We lived in a little village on the shore of a lake, there was a nice beach on this lake and it was deserted on that day, except for us.  We were sitting naked in a little shack they had there for changing.

His lesson was simple, he just said "Just watch me, do as I do and keep at it!"  So I did He had the biggest cock I had seen up to that time).  He watched me too and said I was doing OK.  After a few minutes I saw this "white stuff" spurt out of his cock, I had no idea what it was, and at the same time I had a strange feeling in my own cock.  I had no idea that it was an orgasm, didn't even know what an orgasm was.  My first thought was that somehow I had damaged my penis somehow.

After we went our seperate ways I couldn't wait to examine my penis so I unbuttoned my fly and took it and to my great relief it seemed to be fine and what do you know, it got hard.  So I decided to try this jerking off thing again, had anotherstrange feeling and figured out that was what happened when you jerked off.  After that I followed his advice, kept at it and jerked off any every chance I got.  I never ejacuated until 3 years later, not sure how many dry orgasms I hadm bug]t I also found it really nice to masturbate even without an orgasm.

[Sandra]

kept at it and jerked off any every chance I got.

 

And now you masturbate and orgasm normally?

[will1939]

And now you masturbate and orgasm normally?

The number of times I orgasmed has varied greatly over the years.  Strange as it might seem it was more controlled in my teenage years. probably because I was worried about masturbating too much. so during those years I masturbated 7-10 times a week.  I didn't orgasm every day, sometimes I would jerk off 2 or 3 times in ome day then go a couple of days without.  I still masturbated every day, just not always to orgasm.  I suppose I was edging before I even heard of it.

I never lose the desire to masturbate, not even just after I cum.  However, I find my penis is too sensitive for a few minutes after cumming, uncomftable to keep going and it is better to give it a rest for about 10 minutes.  I always found jerking off the second time was better than the first. a harder penis and a bigger orgasm, the third time in succession was still good but not as good as the first two. More than that the intensity of the orgasms diminished and so did the amount of semen.

In my mid 40's I had the notion to see how many orgasms I could have over a given period of time so actually kept a record for 5 months. It was from 90 to 125 times per month (just from jerking off, not from with my wife and we had a very active sex life at that time).  Then one day I set my record-13 in one day-and ended up with a sore penis and balls.  At that time I switched to mostly edging and limited orgasms to once or twice a day.  As I edged more I began to eventually have dry orgasms without ejaculation.

Well, sorry if this is getting long and boring, but the body, including the sex organs does change in old age and orgasms don;t seem so urgent and important as the once were.  I still have 2 or 3 a week, but it takes a lot of work and the help of porn to have one.  Thanks for your patience in listening to a pathetic old masturbator.

[Sandra]

Then one day I set my record-13 in one day-and ended up with a sore penis and balls.

I thought it was interesting and that IS what the 'hotel' IS all about, its nice to see a member using the hotel I built and using it for what I meant it to be.

[will1939]

I thought it was interesting and that IS what the 'hotel' IS all about, its nice to see a member using the hotel I built and using it for what I meant it to be.



Thank you, Sandra.  This sure is a welcoming place

All this posting and remeniscing got me thinking about why I masturbate so much. Perhaps it is partly sexual but mainly to relieve stress, as I always feel to masturbate even if I don't feel the least bit horny, which at my age I seldom do.  Also I thing my penis getting so much excersis and stimulation every day for so long as made it extremly sensitive so it is always in a state of excitement and ready for more stimulation.

[Sandra]

my penis getting so much excersis and stimulation every day for so long as made it extremly sensitive so it is always in a state of excitement and ready for more stimulation.

Just do NOT make it sore. 

[will1939]

Just do NOT make it sore. 

LOL, in the past when I was young and foolish and my penis would get hard as a rock it would sometimes get sore or even swollen if I masturbated in a hard way for a long time, and the whole plumbing apparatus would hurt if I jerked off too many times.  But now that I am older and smarter (well, smarter than the average idiot) and my penis doesn't get so stiff like it used to, that never happens anymore.  Maybe I have finally mastered masturbation and it only took me 76 years!