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[Max]

Tiny newbuild flats get go-ahead - despite 'being for people with no sex life' because they don't have enough room for a double bed

Councillors had expressed concerns about the cramped conditions in the proposed flats in Cambridge as tenants would have to accept their sex life was 'completely without prospect'.

Easy fix: Just build in a playroom :) 

[Sandra]

Have aliens come to visit to London during the midst of a simmering heatwave?

If so, they've chosen to do so in three small metal UFOs that were snapped above the capital earlier this week and shared on social media.

According to the blog UFO Sightings Footage, these three metallic orbs were recorded making turns over west London on Tuesday, July 12.

Described as being 'like balloons', only with an independent ability to change direction, the folks behind the blog are convinced these weird 'orbs' are extraterrestrial in origin.

[Sandra]

I lost a sex toy inside me on a first date

Sunday mornings don't typically start with me lying on my back, legs wide open, with a finger in my backside...

Well, specifically not in a hospital bed, with the finger belonging to a nurse.

But after a first date fail, that's how I was spending it. Sunday morning, laying in a hospital bed, with an anal plug lost inside of me.

It all started when I was chatting to a guy on social media. We had great conversations, and he asked to take me on a date – it turned out that we got along even better in person.

He came back to my place afterwards and we had sex. The sex and our chemistry was great, and we felt really comfortable with each other. Might I add, comfortable enough to even add in some extra fun with an anal plug.

I've used anal plugs before when filming content for subscribers on my OnlyFans page, so I know how they're 'supposed' to work.

But while we were having sex, I had a sudden feeling of the plug coming out. We stopped and I said: 'Wait, it came out.' But the anal plug couldn't be found.

We started searching for it through the bedsheets, under pillows, oddly enough even under the bed. We looked at each other laughing, and said: 'It can't be!'

I took myself to the bathroom, inserting a finger to try to feel it, but I just couldn't. I then inserted a finger in through my vagina, pressing against my vaginal wall, and there it was.

My date suggested I squat in the shower with a finger inserted to try and push the plug and direct it downwards, and grab onto it. But this was unsuccessful.

My date then attempted to retrieve the plug himself. He was able to hook his finger around the flared base but had no success in being able to get it out. We couldn't believe it! We didn't expect to get to know each other this well...

Not at all squeamish about the events that were unfolding, my date was far more concerned about making sure I was OK. We both couldn't stop laughing about how wild this first date was playing out.

Giving up, I called my best friend, who's a nurse, to ask for advice. She laughed hysterically before offering some solutions, which included: taking laxatives and trying to pass it myself, or taking myself to the emergency room.

I was horrified at the thought of taking laxatives and not being able to pass it, ending up in not one, but two very un-ideal situations.

So, off we headed to the hospital.

In an attempt to manually remove it, a nurse used one finger to try and hook onto the base of the plug. This was quite the uncomfortable feeling.

The nurse was kind and patient – encouraging me to breathe, and try to relax. Easier said than done.

After her numerous attempts failed, another nurse tried again. No luck.

With no other options, a surgeon advised I'd need to be put under anesthetic and undergo surgery to remove the plug.

I wasn't concerned nor scared by this information as it appeared as though it was going to be a straightforward procedure, and I'd be home in a few hours.

It wasn't until a separate conversation with the surgeon where he explained the risks that I started to worry.
An x-ray of Alicia's pelvis - you can see the butt plug inside her.

The x-ray of Alicia's pelvis (Picture: Alicia Davis)

The surgeon advised that, if they weren't able to remove the plug using forceps, they would be required to make an incision through my stomach and colon to remove it. If this happened, it would result in a longer and more intense recovery.

The worst part was that they wouldn't know if this would be required until I was in the surgery. Real fear now started to dawn on me for the first time during this entire ordeal. My date was kindly still by my side at the hospital supporting me through it all.

I was moved to the Acute Surgical Unit and dressed in surgical garments, ready to be whisked away at any second. However, due to how busy the hospital was, I had to wait for surgery for two days.

I worked on my laptop, watched movies and slept trying to pass the time. I wasn't allowed to eat or drink as I could be taken into surgery at any moment.

Nearing the end of day two, and the unknown of how long I was going to be there, it started to become overwhelming. I was hungry, bored and wanted it over and done with.
Alicia on a hospital bed, with a nurse, she is smiling to camera

On top of that all, I was feeling a little scared about what I was going to wake up to. I tried to remain calm and positive, I knew I was in good hands. The surgeons assured me they would do everything possible to make sure this was an easy procedure with minimal after effects to my body.

My date only left my side to go to work and once visiting hours had ended. He wasn't allowed to stay at the hospital with me.

We spoke a lot about how crazy this whole ordeal was and laughed a lot to stay positive. I've not told anyone this before, but while the curtains were closed, giving my hospital room privacy, I actually gave him a blow job to pass the time.

Nothing about this situation felt natural but there was oddly some comfort in knowing we were both in this together.

Finally, after two days of waiting, I was taken in for surgery. Again advised of the intended procedure, along with the risks, I signed a next of kin waiver and I was put to sleep.

I felt like I held it all together really well emotionally throughout this whole situation. I had come to terms with 'what will be will be' and tried not to freak myself out too much.
Finally, after two days of waiting, I was taken in for surgery

It was all I could do and there was no point getting myself worked up about the unknown or the outcome. I just had to accept what was to come and get through it.

I woke up in recovery 10 minutes later, relieved to see no incisions to my stomach. The procedure went exactly as we all planned and hoped. I was told that due to being under anesthetic all of my muscles were completely relaxed and they were able to use a small pair of forceps and remove the plug with ease.

Two hours later I was discharged to go home. My recovery was easy, with no pain or discomfort. Once the anesthetic wore off, I felt like it never happened.

Just the memory of a wild first date, some photos and videos of some behind the scenes footage of my time in hospital, documenting what I was feeling, each step of the process along the way and what I was doing to pass the time to look back and laugh about.

My date and I remained in contact for days afterwards, but we have since parted ways.

I am really grateful he was such a gentleman through the whole process and didn't just leave me to deal with on my own, it was a confronting situation to deal with at the end of the day.

But realistically we weren't right for each other – he wasn't comfortable with some of the things I did for work and I wasn't prepared to make so many sacrifices to my business at such an early stage of meeting someone.

I took a few months off using an anal plug again, but have since used them again to film content for my OnlyFans.

I was terrified at first and must admit I still am. I made sure I was in a position where I could always see the plug on the camera in front of me and it was only being used for the minimal amount of time needed.

I know these were extremely unfortunate circumstances but it's opened my eyes that it can happen so I want to be very careful using them in future. I don't think I will ever feel completely comfortable using one again but the show must go on.

I thought, like most people who've ever used one: 'This will never happen to me' – thought it was an impossible horror story. But guess what!? It can!

I don't think I will ever feel completely comfortable using one again.

My surgeon explained that, because the plug's flared base was a heart shape with a much more narrow edge, it can occur extremely easily. Due to the way the body works, it will literally 'suck it up like a vacuum', advising to cautiously select the shape of the base when experimenting with anal plugs.

I only used round based plug's now as an added precaution to avoid this happening again. But, the only real way I can warn others to avoid this situation is to not use them at all.

This can happen to anyone at any time, so if you are using them there's no way to be 100% safe from this happening. But, I warn others to be mindful of the shapes they are using and highlight with first hand experience this is a risk we all need to be aware of.

I'm not sure this is one to tell the grandkids but I think it would be hard for anyone to top this as their funniest first date.


And I can certainly say no other first date for me could come close to being as memorable as this one was.

[Sandra]

Nearly 500 migrants crossed Channel in small boats on Saturday.

Nearly 500 migrants crossed the Channel in small boats on Saturday, the Home Office has said.

The latest figures show that 492 people made the crossing in nine boats - after a week that saw hundreds more make the journey.

Some 107 arrived on Wednesday, 125 on Monday and 703 last Sunday, the figures reveal.

More crossings tend to occur in calmer weather and winds have been lighter in the Channel over the period.

Immigration now tops the list of issues that Britons consider most important - for the first time since 2016 - according to a new poll by Ipsos released on Friday.


A homeless man who tried to murder a postman by pushing him onto the tube tracks is a migrant convicted of sex crimes who was already facing deportation.
Kurdish migrant Brwa Shorsh, 24, shoved a postman, at Oxford Circus in central London on February 3.
Although he denied trying to kill him, Shorsh admitted he did it for 'revenge' thinking the postman gave him a 'dirty look' and was found guilty of attempted murder.
Shorsh accumulated convictions of assault and indecent acts since coming to the UK in 2019.

The Home Office tried to deport him but he lodged an appeal with the immigration tribunal - which was ongoing at the time of the attack

[Sandra]

'Boots have you lost your minds?!'

High Street health and beauty chain is ridiculed after announcing its new advent calendars for sale - in heatwave August

In one of the earliest pitches to the public so far this year, the health and beauty retailer emailed customers to say they could get advent calendars more three months before Christmas.

[Sandra]

A British influencer star has sparked online frenzy after leaving her knickers in a series of inappropriate places including a supermarket bread section.

The latest stunt by British-born influencer Chloe Lopez saw her drape her underwear around a petrol pump in Spain. It followed earlier uproar when she dumped worn panties in the fresh bread section of a supermarket.

Spanish outlet Sur in English said Ms Lopez had sparked outrage by performing the bizarre deed in several locations. The outlet reported grocery chain Mercadona is even considering legal action.

Her most recent video, in which the bold Brit can be seen brazenly leaving her knickers at a fuel station, has garnered 2,437 likes since it was posted.

https://twitter.com/i/status/1825139019417866478

Her actions have prompted a mixed reaction with some finding the campaign sexy and others branding it disturbing. "How pretty you are," one commenter said. Another added: "Your content is great."

But Ms Lopez is not universally popular — another outlet reported she had been told to "leave" Spain by disgruntled locals. Another follower said: "At a gas station? Oh my god, shame on you."

[GrandpaDave65]

Reminds me of the story of Willy Wonka and the golden ticket.  If I were a merchant I'd play up her escapades in the hope I could attract eager scavengers into my place of business ...

[Sandra]

Upgrade your crisp game with these quintessentially British flavours.

Walkers has partnered with food giant Heinz to treat foodies wanting their favourite sandwiches without the hassle of washing up.
Debuting in supermarkets nationwide last week (August 12), the crisp maker released a trio of unusual flavours reminiscent of its 2009 competition that saw bizarre combos like Onion Bhaji, Fish & Chips, Crispy Duck and Hoisin, Cajun Squirrel and Chilli & Chocolate crisps hit the shelves.

For a limited time, shoppers can now get their hands on a packet of Roast Chicken with Heinz Mayo, Cheese Toastie with Heinz Beans, or Sausage Sarnie with Heinz Ketchup crisps.

[Sandra]

Man with extremely rare and bizarre condition sees pink every time he orgasms


One man's sex life is the definition of colorful.

The married 31-year-old — known only as 'Mr R.' — went to doctors complaining that whenever he orgasmed he suddenly saw the world in hues of pink.

He added that objects also appeared sharper and brighter, and that it always looked like early morning — even if he was orgasming late at night.

In other cases, it can lead to someone "tasting colors" or "feeling sounds".

Revealing the bizarre case in the journal Psychiatry, the doctors wrote: 'He stated that during his orgasms, he experienced visual equity changes whenever his eyes were open, and he saw objects sharper and brighter than usual.

'He described these changes as "high contrast vision with dominant pink color everywhere", and said that the environment became brighter as if it was early morning even if the environment was dark.'

The patient, who was also a medical doctor, initially tried to treat his condition using the anti-depressant Sertraline.

But after three months, he sought help at a nearby hospital — where doctors suggested he had the rare neurological condition.

At this point, the patient also revealed he had suffered from altered perceptions in childhood due to chest pain caused by a faulty heart valve.

He said that during these pain episodes, he would feel 'white' — a sensation that he said was never brought up by other feelings. This stopped before adulthood, however, after the heart valve issue was resolved.

The patient was discharged and offered no further treatment, with the individual reporting no erectile dysfunction and saying they were happy with their sex life.

Synesthesia is caused by nerves excited by a certain activity accidentally activated other un-related nerves, triggering a 'mixed up' sensation for people.

It was not clear why an orgasm might lead to synesthesia, but the flood of feel-good hormones released and surge of brain activity during the act could raise the likelihood of multiple nerves being excited.

It is often linked to the brain's development, with the organ said to have developed in a way during childhood that is different from 'neurotypical' people.

Many live normal and full lives with the condition, with some even saying it gives them a richer experience of the world.

In other cases, individuals have reported experiencing different colors during each stage of sex. They reported seeing orange at the start of sex, yellow during sex and then pink during the climax phase.

Other types include seeing a specific color when hearing a car horn, or saying they can taste words when they hear them.

Vincent van Gogh, Wassily Kandinsky and Lorde are all said to have the condition.

There is no specific treatment for the condition, with doctors saying this is not needed as the condition is not an illness.

Estimates suggest that up to two percent of the population experiences a level of synesthesia during sex, according to Psychology Today.

'In contrast to previous reports, our case demonstrated color orgasm as a type of synesthesia that might not negatively affect sex life in men.'

[Lickysucki69xo]

Wow and there's me thinking I've a weird thing I've never cum outside of masterbation.

[Sandra]

F-spot gives men mind-blowing pleasure – but they don't know where it is.

Many people don't know that men have an intensely pleasurable area called the F-spot, and few know where to find it.

The lack of knowledge means they're missing out on some seriously good orgasms Men could be missing out on a lot of pleasure when it comes to sex.

While most people have heard of the mysterious G-spot - the elusive but wonderful area that promises to give you an incredible orgasm every time, there's one pleasure point that people know a lot less about.

Many people don't know that men have another intensely pleasurable area, known as the F-spot.
It's actually one of the most powerful and sensitive areas of the penis, and the F-spot promises to give the most intense orgasm, with no post-orgasm sensitivity.


Find their F-spot to experience the "life changing" sensation.
It comes after the brand's sex tips and tricks went viral on social media.

Learning to orgasm with a new area takes practice, patience and technique but, as the connoisseurs of masturbation.

There are simple things you can do to try and locate it easily, and there are ways you can stimulate the area too.
You just need to follow some top tips.
Men are unaware that they have an F-spot - and it's super pleasurable
There are ways you can locate it easily.

How do I find it?

First things first, you need to find where the F-spot is located. Of course, each body is different, but luckily this isn't as allusive or hard to find as the G-spot.

The F-spot can be found on the Frenulum, on the underside of the penis.
Also commonly known as the banjo string, the frenulum is the piece of skin that connects the shaft of the penis to the head, as well as the foreskin for those uncircumcised.

This area has an extremely high concentration of nerve endings, making it extremely sensitive and therefore, the perfect place for intense sensation.

How do I achieve orgasm?

Due to its sensitivity and high concentration of nerves, the sensation of frenulum stimulation is similar to that of a clitoral orgasm.
In the same way that a clitoris needs a gentle touch, slow and steady is the best approach when attempting a frenulum orgasm.

Unlike the typical male orgasm that requires thrusting and/or penetration, the frenulum only needs to be stimulated gently.
If you are too firm or quick, it can become overwhelming and far too sensitive to be pleasurable.

Whether exploring solo or experimenting with a partner, make sure you're relaxed and in the right mindframe.
Start by lightly stimulating the area with either a finger, tongue or even palm, gently massaging the area from side to side.

The key here is patience. It would be easy to fall back into the natural routine of stroking the penis, but stick with the careful massage.
Let the sensation slowly build, giving it consistent attention.

The first time you are experimenting with this particular area, it may take a while to learn what rhythm, pressure and speed works best for you, but be patient and listen to your body - it will be worth it.

You may not orgasm from this sensation the first time, but don't be disappointed - take the opportunity to try it again.

Another great way to find, excite and enjoy your F-spot is by using a specific toy. You can find many that will work to stimulate the area.

[useitorloseit]

A British influencer star has sparked online frenzy after leaving her knickers in a series of inappropriate places including a supermarket bread section.

The latest stunt by British-born influencer Chloe Lopez saw her drape her underwear around a petrol pump in Spain. It followed earlier uproar when she dumped worn panties in the fresh bread section of a supermarket.

Spanish outlet Sur in English said Ms Lopez had sparked outrage by performing the bizarre deed in several locations. The outlet reported grocery chain Mercadona is even considering legal action.

Her most recent video, in which the bold Brit can be seen brazenly leaving her knickers at a fuel station, has garnered 2,437 likes since it was posted.

https://twitter.com/i/status/1825139019417866478

Her actions have prompted a mixed reaction with some finding the campaign sexy and others branding it disturbing. "How pretty you are," one commenter said. Another added: "Your content is great."

But Ms Lopez is not universally popular — another outlet reported she had been told to "leave" Spain by disgruntled locals. Another follower said: "At a gas station? Oh my god, shame on you."

sure, would be sexy and exciting, but not in the supermarket.... that's just kind of dumb.   and there is no way for anyone to know if they were worn by a poxed-up disgusting skank, or a sexy girl just having fun.