Interesting topic from a fellow jacker

[wishiwasbigger]

I ran across a post on the old/defunct jackinchat website several years ago that caught my eye. I actually copy and pasted and saved it. Struck a cord with me. I guess I share sentiments of most of what he said.
I reposted it recently on xnxx.com (out of sheer boredom) and the replies were hate and ridicule. I've got a very thick internet skin and am not hurt/offended/upset etc. but honestly wondered what drove their negativity.

Here is the post for reference. Feel free to comment!

"WE are society. Most of us here want a friend/jerk-buddy/lover to share all this with. I cannot share it with my wife, which is sad. She's the one person in the world I'm supposed to able to share completely with. Problem is she's not interested in porn or perversions of any kind. Sex is rather boring and only a very little on the edge.

I want (as most of us do) someone I can open up with and talk about everything that turns me on. And I want to hear the other guy tell me his secret desires and perversions. Best would be a guy in person so we can share them together. I want to be naked with him and watch his reaction to the stuff that turns him on. I for one want to engage in a sexual relationship with another man so we can share completely our needs. I think most of us don't get that kind of relationship from anyone else, which is why we masturbate all the time.

I think about masturbation most of the day and can't wait for alone time to touch myself. I dream about having that other guy to touch each other.

My wife has jokingly mentioned that I should find someone else if something happens to her. I responded, maybe a little too quickly: "why would I want another wife??" I realize she could have taken that a couple of ways. Either I could never want anyone else after her or why would I want ANY wife? I meant the latter and I think she knew it. "

[Sandra]

Good Post, Members please leave a reply

Videos of me jacking, and a couple of my wife's handy's :-)

You can do that here too

[Slivers]

Interesting post, don't understand the negative replies either. Not really familiar with xnxx (other then the vids). But I think everyone masturbates and wishes that it would be less taboo in real life. Masturbation is an hobby I only share online. How nice would it be to just be open about it "how was your weekend" "great, been stroking a lot" "Nice, me too".

But I think it still has that stigma of being sad and lonely and masturbating with a guy being gay. It is just masturbation and it would be great to share it with a bud, see how he does it, what turns him on. Really a fantasy of mine.

Glad we have the internet and sites like this.

[useitorloseit]

Masturbation is an hobby I only share online. How nice would it be to just be open about it "how was your weekend" "great, been stroking a lot" "Nice, me too".

Puzzles me as well, always has.   There were times in the past when the conversation you mentioned was fairly open, but people's lives and situations change for sure.   Now more what I see and hear are allusions to it among men who are in similar scenarios- married long term, kids, always busy with responsibilities,  commonly hear things like "finally the wife and kids will be gone for the weekend!" with an unsaid but obvious understanding. 

The tone of the original post tho is clearly the desire for attraction to and emotional, physical engagement in sex with another guy.   That's fine, if that's what someone wants.  There are a lot of us guys who don't have any desire for that, it just does nothing at all, or rather it just does not exist in our brains.  THat should be fine too- but almost always on the discussion boards I've been a part of, "straight" guys quickly become targets of ridicule and hate from the ones who ARE sexually attracted to other guys-  and they loudly proclaim "you must be a liar, if you're here!"   It's bullshit.   

I have zero interest in getting naked with other guys and jerking each other off.  It just doesn't register for me.   But In-Person sharing our interest in porn and things that get us off, getting off together to the same things,  trading materials we've saved which we particularly like, discussing things, tributing the same pics, that would be lots of fun I think, and shouldn't be taboo among consenting adults. 

[wishiwasbigger]

Good Post, Members please leave a reply

Videos of me jacking, and a couple of my wife's handy's :-)

You can do that here too

I'll make a point of it 

[Strkofgns]

It's odd to me that you got negative reactions. Your post describes a wonderful thing to me. I think I experienced some of that in high school with my best friend. Wish I could find/recreate it as an adult.

[wishiwasbigger]

It's odd to me that you got negative reactions. Your post describes a wonderful thing to me. I think I experienced some of that in high school with my best friend. Wish I could find/recreate it as an adult.

Absolutely. I had a neighbor/friend/schoolmate that I literally grew up with. We were getting naked together and "playing" at a very early age. At puberty, things got real. And real fun. We were sexaully active all through high school and then we both moved away at 19. I haven't been with a bud since - but have a very strong desire to experience it again!

[spunkluvr]

. . . almost always on the discussion boards I've been a part of, "straight" guys quickly become targets of ridicule and hate from the ones who ARE sexually attracted to other guys . . .

Sadly, I've usually found the opposite. Homophobia still exists, big time. 

[useitorloseit]

Sadly, I've usually found the opposite. Homophobia still exists, big time. 

I have not seen "homophobia" on any masturbation related sites I've ever visited...  other than the obviously unhinged rantings that destroyed JIC, which I do not miss.    BW is overwhelmingly homosexual, for instance.  What still exists, big time, that I see is social, societal, stereotypical stupid idea that if guys would be able to have fun jerking off together then they MUST be something other than heterosexual- as if it even matters.