Adolescence Boys and a Homosexual Experience

[VediVeni]

I agree with what others have said, that they didn't consider themselves gay or bi, that they were never attracted to men. I've written elsewhere about masturbating and sucking a mate growing up, even with a very much older neighbour. It didn't feel as if this was sex, it was just masturbating. I admit that seeing a hard cock was something I loved seeing, but only when we were masturbating. If I thought about men at other times, I had no reaction. It must be, as will1939 says, the mutual aspect of masturbation which gave us the confidence to experiment and explore.

[Sandra]