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Posted by Sandra
 - Jun, 13, 2026,
I never realized it before, but I suppose some don't get hard it's a very bizarre life they have.
Posted by Ernie59
 - Jun, 10, 2026,
Quote from: Sandra on Jun, 07, 2026,



The Internet is full of them there must be a lot of them around, but where are they.

That is so beautiful and sexy. One thing we haven't touched on is that the porn version of the shemale and also a lot of the pros out there get penis enhancements and are often a product of plastic surgery with fake tits and feminization. There are exceptions, of course but when someone is in hormone therapy for gender re-assignment, the treatment is more often than not going to make it difficult to get erections and also shrink their penis considerably. Many that I've met are bottom only because of that and I have discussed that at length with a few of them. Now, as I say, there are exceptions. A gurl that lives and works in a town a couple hours from me has a lovely cock but is a bottom only and only offers oral on her. I've only been with her one time when she came to Moncton. She is very beautiful and feminine and sweet and I really enjoyed having a conversation with her as well as the sex. She does get hard which is nice but there have been a few that I've topped who do not get hard or are limited in that regard. Like most things in the porn industry, we have to kind of enjoy it as a fantasy more than reality.
Posted by Ernie59
 - Jun, 09, 2026,
Quote from: will1939 on Jun, 08, 2026, I have seen many such pictures but have never met one in person. I did chat with one online a long time ago and he/she seemed to be kind of depressed , confused and lonely.  I was pleased to help him get a job at a place where he was accepted, I think that helped him considerably.  Maybe we don't realize that those people have to live their lives in other areas besides sex.


That's a very good point. The culture wars out there marginalize trans people and it continues to get worse. Besides the sexual part of all of this, I have always tried my best to just be kind, courteous and respectful when meeting transgenders (or anyone else, for that matter). When I worked in retail, I often had customers who were transitioning and I  never treated them as a sex object or was condescending in any way. I simply did my best to just treat them like any other customer. I worked in Home Depot after retiring from my trade but I never acted like I was ever better than anyone because they didn't have my extensive experience and knowledge. It was always greatly appreciated by my customers.
 On the sexual side of this, my experience has always been with paid escorts. But even in that case, there is sometimes an underlying emotional element. The lady I lived with was one I had met as an escort and was my first sexual experience with a trans. We became friends and I helped her with some things at her home. But her and I often talked about how difficult the transition really is and also the hormone therapy when they start it can wreak havoc with their emotions so we should try to keep that in mind when having conversations with a TG/ TS.