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Posted by Degris
- Today at 10:13Quote from: Sandra on Jan, 25, 2024,Do most men actually want sex all the time, or is that simply how male sexuality is perceived? There are several things at play here. Testosterone certainly influences sexual desire, but biology is only part of it.Why do most men always want to have sex?
For many men, sex isn't simply about orgasm or physical gratification. It can also represent affection, validation, intimacy, reassurance, feeling attractive, or simply being wanted.For me, I want to feel desired and crave the intimacy. That being said there are times that I just want the release that masturbation alone does not satisfy.
Equally, some men have very little interest in sex, while some women have considerably stronger sexual appetites than their male partners. The stereotypes don't always survive contact with reality.
I think the more provocative question is "Do men really want sex all the time, or do they simply want to feel desired?"
Those are two very different things.
Posted by jack1566hard
- Yesterday at 16:00All of these are really thoughtful and interesting posts. As I read each, one after another, while I was trying to figure out my response I reached the following conclusion, which sadly isn't very profound or erudite. I want to get naked and have sex all the time because it truly feels damn good. It's just that simple. It seems hardwired into every human to want to repeat acts that give them pleasure and eschew those that don't. Just because I enjoy sex and am always interested in it does not rob me of either discretion or agency. I may be the decendant of a primate but I'm an evolved thoughtful one. Why evolved, simple I may want a thing 24/7 but that does not mean that I'm some troglodyte roaring through the streets with a raging hard on looking to fuck anything and everything that has a hole.
Posted by TeaseMe
- Jun, 05, 2025,Quote from: will1939 on Jun, 05, 2025, Do they? Maybe some or even most,but definitly not all. For most of my life I worked at a place where women outnumbered men and became friends with some of them in that we would talk a lot (how women love to talk!) and sometimes I would go to lunch with some of them, but we were just casual friends and I never even thought about having sex with any of them. While I masturbate a lot (maybe excessivley) sometimes I wonder ifhow sexual masturbating even is, I think I do it mostly to relieve stress, and if I don;t do it enough I get depressed.
That's a great point, and thank you for pointing out that men have discretion. We are not out there looking to fuck every attractive woman we see, even if we may be strongly attracted by her appearance. We still think with the correct head, so to speak, lol. Also, in my view, you did well career-wise in your discretion. I, too, have worked most of my career in places where females were most of the workforce, and have been supervised by women a bunch of times.
While I have wildly jacked off privately to fantasies about a couple of those bosses, I've never involved myself with any woman at work. Even when some have clearly indicated a strong interest. In my hotly competitive field, that behavior is a great way to potentially open myself to what I call a strategic harassment charge, regardless of the actual facts. I have actually seen a coworker pushed aside by such suspicions as a woman advanced into his position. Observing all that led me to think it's better to keep any coworker lust between me and Rosie Palm.
IMHO and speaking generally, the difference in need for sex is hardwired into our biology. As semen builds up, men have a compelling physical need to ejaculate, and as any man who has spent time in long-term orgasm denial knows, it ramps up the longer ejaculation does not occur. Denial of a cum shot for several weeks or months can mean that when it does happen, it will be painful rather than pleasurable. I know that to be true. Research has shown - and most men with self-knowledge can see this in themselves - that a man's visual and mental focus narrows as he pursues, prepares for and then engages in sexual intercourse. That's why porn works. Denial of orgasm further focuses this change over time. Or, as a Mistress controlling me once said, "It makes you much more attentive to what I want you to do."
As a side note, research also indicates that pounding the ol' pud regularly is beneficial to the prostate and reduces cancer risk.
For women, though, sex is not as much a need as a desire. IMO that's because biologically, the woman is the one who bears ultimate responsibility should a child result, so she needs to be discriminating, and the only way to do that is have less compelling physical need - so that's what's built in. A woman who understands herself and also understands the man's narrowing focus as he pursues her can easily manipulate any man who is even remotely interested, and an actual sex act is not even required. Yet I am continually surprised at the number of women who do not know they have this power.
Again, I am speaking generally, and there are obviously outliers among both sexes. I hope my opinions don't provoke negative reactions. They are just observations I picked up by observing, noting and learning.
Posted by will1939
- Jun, 05, 2025,Quote from: Sandra on Jan, 25, 2024,Why do most men always want to have sex?
Do they? Maybe some or even most,but definitly not all. For most of my life I worked at a place where women outnumbered men and became friends with some of them in that we would talk a lot (how women love to talk!) and sometimes I would go to lunch with some of them, but we were just casual friends and I never even thought about having sex with any of them. While I masturbate a lot (maybe excessivley) sometimes I wonder ifhow sexual masturbating even is, I think I do it mostly to relieve stress, and if I don;t do it enough I get depressed.
Posted by Friendlycock
- Mar, 21, 2025,It would be a primal urge, built in to men, to spread the gene pool by fucking every available female whenever and wherever. Now we couldn't have that going on, could we? 
I mean, it's more primal than rational to think, "She's good looking. I think ill put my cock into her and shoot my sperm into her" but damn if that aint what we're thinking.
I mean, it's more primal than rational to think, "She's good looking. I think ill put my cock into her and shoot my sperm into her" but damn if that aint what we're thinking.