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Posted by Sandra
 - Dec, 20, 2023,
Quote from: anonymousWomen aren't the only ones who feel thrown by parenting. Here's what new father Myles, 26, told me.

'Let me preface this by saying I love my son more than anything in the world and can't imagine a world without him in it. But, dear God, please can I have my wife back? I don't feel like I have a rival for my affection, I feel replaced.

'I understand that things have radically changed. At the start when I felt like sex, it felt wrong to even suggest it. My wife was now the mother of my child. A different person. When I did tentatively suggest that it had been three months from the birth and maybe time to start again, she glared at me. I knew she was thinking, "You insensitive bastard! Can't you see how exhausted, stressed and unhinged I am already?".

'Thing is, I did understand and what I really wanted was her attention. I feel like I've lost my best friend and lover. I'm not even sure she likes me anymore.

'It's been 18-months since we last had intercourse. I've tried talking about our lack of sex with her but she shuts me down. She says she doesn't feel attractive anymore, but I can't see that her body has changed that much. I wonder if she ever really enjoyed having sex and this is just a good excuse to avoid it.

'I can't see any other option but to wait and see if this is something she'll just pass through. I won't cheat but I miss sex and I miss having her to myself. I feel resentful having to satisfy myself purely through porn.

'I've spoken to other new dads and this is a common scenario. We all feel guilty for feeling like our needs aren't being considered but that's how we feel'.