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Posted by Sexy
 - Feb, 10, 2024,
Quote from: Sandra on Jan, 25, 2024,

Men and women value different things in a partner. This used to be widely understood, but it isn't anymore, because Feminists have done their best to teach women to BECOME the man she really wants to be with. This is why women are far less happy today - they've been taught to go against their nature.

Anyway, generally, woman want a man who is strong (why so many women today want a TALL man), who is well-educated, who is financially successful, and who has high status (I didn't mention looks because everyone likes beauty). Why do women want these things in a man? Because these traits are strongly correlated with successful long-term relationships and families.

Men DO NOT SHARE these desires in their female partners - mostly because they already have these things to some degree or other. Instead, men value women who are young (fertile), innocent/inexperienced, feminine, cooperative, family-oriented, and peaceful. Why? Because these traits are strongly correlated with successful long-term relationships and families.

Women are hypergamous - they are inherently drawn to find the "best" man they can get. This was a survival strategy. But this also means that women are constantly comparing every man they've been with against the guy they're currently with, and if the current guy doesn't match up to any of their past men in any area, it's going to bother her. Her hypergamy means she wants to "level up" in every area every time - despite how unrealistic that is in reality. She can be with a fantastic guy who she knows is great - but maybe he doesn't have as high a degree as a guy from her past, or isn't as good a dancer, or doesn't make as much money, or isn't as tall, or whatever. Even if he's better than the past guys in 90 different ways, the 1 way that he's not will bother her, and over time, it will make her unsatisfied. She'll complain to her friends about it, and they'll tell her to "dump that bum and take him to the cleaners" and likely, she will.
Anytime a girl complains about her relationship, tons of other girls - who may only know 1 minor thing about the relationship - tell her to dump his ass.

Men understand this, and they understand that the more people a woman has dated, much less slept with, the harder it will be for her to be satisfied with any man in the future. And since men tend to have much more to lose, given that courts STRONGLY favor women, men see women with more men in their past as being of lower value.

What does THAT mean? For some men, it means that they'll just show no interest in her and stay away, or keep her at arm's length and never get too close to her (keep her as an acquaintance rather than a friend). For other men, they simply see her as "only good for sex" - meaning they'll give her attention as long as she gives him casual sex, but he'll never seriously consider her for a relationship. The thing is, most women don't realize that he's made that decision - she'll tell herself that he sees her as a relationship partner, when he only sees her as a chick to bang for a while.

Like it or not, you'll never change what men value in women, just like men can't change what women value in men. We have very good reasons for valuing the things we do. And, yes, there are going to be exceptions to every rule, but exceptions are just that: rare anomalies. The vast majority of people are "the rule", and the rule will apply to them.

I think about this so much!! It would be so hot to have guys taking turns in my pussy!
Posted by Sandra
 - Jan, 25, 2024,

Men and women value different things in a partner. This used to be widely understood, but it isn't anymore, because Feminists have done their best to teach women to BECOME the man she really wants to be with. This is why women are far less happy today - they've been taught to go against their nature.

Anyway, generally, woman want a man who is strong (why so many women today want a TALL man), who is well-educated, who is financially successful, and who has high status (I didn't mention looks because everyone likes beauty). Why do women want these things in a man? Because these traits are strongly correlated with successful long-term relationships and families.

Men DO NOT SHARE these desires in their female partners - mostly because they already have these things to some degree or other. Instead, men value women who are young (fertile), innocent/inexperienced, feminine, cooperative, family-oriented, and peaceful. Why? Because these traits are strongly correlated with successful long-term relationships and families.

Women are hypergamous - they are inherently drawn to find the "best" man they can get. This was a survival strategy. But this also means that women are constantly comparing every man they've been with against the guy they're currently with, and if the current guy doesn't match up to any of their past men in any area, it's going to bother her. Her hypergamy means she wants to "level up" in every area every time - despite how unrealistic that is in reality. She can be with a fantastic guy who she knows is great - but maybe he doesn't have as high a degree as a guy from her past, or isn't as good a dancer, or doesn't make as much money, or isn't as tall, or whatever. Even if he's better than the past guys in 90 different ways, the 1 way that he's not will bother her, and over time, it will make her unsatisfied. She'll complain to her friends about it, and they'll tell her to "dump that bum and take him to the cleaners" and likely, she will.
Anytime a girl complains about her relationship, tons of other girls - who may only know 1 minor thing about the relationship - tell her to dump his ass.

Men understand this, and they understand that the more people a woman has dated, much less slept with, the harder it will be for her to be satisfied with any man in the future. And since men tend to have much more to lose, given that courts STRONGLY favor women, men see women with more men in their past as being of lower value.

What does THAT mean? For some men, it means that they'll just show no interest in her and stay away, or keep her at arm's length and never get too close to her (keep her as an acquaintance rather than a friend). For other men, they simply see her as "only good for sex" - meaning they'll give her attention as long as she gives him casual sex, but he'll never seriously consider her for a relationship. The thing is, most women don't realize that he's made that decision - she'll tell herself that he sees her as a relationship partner, when he only sees her as a chick to bang for a while.

Like it or not, you'll never change what men value in women, just like men can't change what women value in men. We have very good reasons for valuing the things we do. And, yes, there are going to be exceptions to every rule, but exceptions are just that: rare anomalies. The vast majority of people are "the rule", and the rule will apply to them.