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Posted by Friendlycock
- Nov, 09, 2024,Quote from: proedger on Nov, 14, 2023, How do you deal with a spouse who has shut down sex totally including watching you masturbate?I still haven't. Working on feeling better about my situation. Kevin from hip forums.
I know two men who have solved that situation satisfactorly.
I'll follow this and see how they did it.
Posted by Bayplay4u
- Oct, 13, 2024,Quote from: proedger on Nov, 21, 2023, Supplements.
I will not suggest over the counter supplements because that would not be ethical. I will only share a natural root vegetable that I juice every day and explain why.
Upon discovering decreased erectile function and decreased semen output, many men start panicking, especially if, like me, had an extremely high sex drive throughout life. Such losses strike at the core of a man's physical perception of who he is, because sex for men is one of the most basic core identity which is part of a man's personality.
The good news, based on "The Tao of Health, Sex, and Longevity, a modern practical guide of the ancient way" by Daniel P. Reid is that ejaculation control is important to overall health and is even more important in later years.
Again, the MIND is a powerful tool, but when discovering decreased erectile function get a medical physical plus labs including testosterone level. My testosterone level is actually within normal limits, despite some erectile loss at times. Your Doctor might want to prescribe Viagra but also be aware that such meds stress out the cardiovascular system so such RX's should be discussed with a physician especially if you have high blood pressure and any other cardiac related issues. I don't take any of those medications due to the serious side effects those medications have.
I juice beets every day. Beets is a source of extremely potent antioxidants including nitrate which is converted naturally into nitric oxide when consumed. Be aware that fresh beet juice WILL TURN YOUR URINE COLOR RED. You are not bleeding to death, it's just what beets do. Can turn stools red as well, but juicing decreases a lot of pulp. YOU ARE NOT BLEEDING TO DEATH!!!
Nitric oxide. Huge amount produced through fresh beet juice. I have a very powerful juicer, so I wash a large beet and cut it in sections, add a large apple, add fresh ginger (another powerful plant) and juice then add to the juice Bai Coco antioxidant fusion. All natural, an extremely powerful drink.
What does nitic oxide do? Increases and benefits blood flow and circulation. Naturally.
The internet is inundated with all kinds of supplements for men regarding erectile function and semen volume. Just be careful, don't panic, and save your money as well as talking with your doctor. Vendors know how distressing male changes are in later life, thus the tsunami of over-the-counter products that exist. Just be aware.
My path is more of a natural one. Plus, every person is different.
Because of the impact erectile function and semen volume can have, one's tendency is to try to fix it. Take a deep breath and see your doctor. What is your testosterone level in your blood? Normal? good. Take another deep breath.
Pleasure can still be achieved with the mind, interaction with a person. It is not the end of the world.
As a man now in my 70's, I started back in my 50's being more aware of physical changes in my body. As stated above, it's a mindset. I started off testosterone replacement therapy. That was a huge boost to my overall daily life. Fast forward to now. Age has diminished the amount of ejaculate I produce. It doesn't bother me much. I don't have to masturbate because my wife is still a very sexual active woman. What I am saying is...if you make sex a priority in your life you will live a healthier life. However, You have to be completely committed to it.
Posted by Sandra
- Feb, 12, 2024,Quote from: Sandra
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Posted by bigclint
- Feb, 12, 2024,yes you should have a friendly word with your elder neigbour
Posted by Sexy
- Feb, 12, 2024,Quote from: proedger on Nov, 14, 2023, I posted a lengthy post on Older Sex here, but I want to drill down deeper regarding older sex changes and effects on the mind of an older adult male. I am concentrating more on the male because females have the ability to reach orgasm post 65 and well into their 70s and 80s.
With men it is different.
Loss of erectile function and decreased ejaculatory fluid creates a psychological turmoil especially if, like me, one has had a very high sex drive. This gradual loss of sexual function brings about a man to seek medical help, in some cases prescribed medications by a Physician to regain at least one component, erectile function.
I prefer natural methods and cock ring ball sling combination aids.
The second level I have noticed not only here on this site and on the Internet but through frank discussion with other older men a decrease to absence of sexual interest and desire by their spouses. The number of such situations is quite alarming.
Not having spousal support during a challenging experience of decreased erectile function and ejaculatory reduction is not at all helpful and could cause serious depressive states in a man. I mentioned in my previous post that communication channels need to be opened and maintained. Spousal support can be just simply having the wife watch her husband masturbate.
But in many cases many women shut down and there are numerous reasons for that which I'm not going to explore but regardless, the shutdown leaves the husband high and dry, regardless of his stash of Viagra.
Recently, I have had interesting discussions with very close friends regarding the merging of older physical sex changes (decreased erectile function and decreased ejaculatory volume) and the mind. Acceptance has to come first with then the ability to merge the mind with those physical changes in a positive way.
The intact mind is a powerful tool facing the sex challenges of old age.
If possible, one way is to join a local nudist resort to confront body image issues. I have met men in a nudist resort who needed social interaction in a nudist environment who have found that helpful. Visual stimulation other than porn is important. Visual/mind/body.
Ideation of past sexual experiences is also an important tool is meshing body self-stimulation through masturbation. The mind is an incredibly powerful tool and when meshed with the body can result in regained pleasure. Having a wife be with the husband while he masturbates is quite important including touching, but if that is not possible, develop the mind ideations and work on meshing them together. If you separate masturbation as a purely physical function without engaging the mind the experience will not be fulfilling.
One has to work in finding a solution which best fits one's lifestyle.
I wonder what it would be like to go with an older man. We have a neighbour that is really very kind and nice that lost his wife, he is about 68 or 70. He looks sad and lonely and sometimes I wonder if there is anything I can do to help him feel better.
Posted by bigclint
- Nov, 21, 2023,well said goood advice
Posted by proedger
- Nov, 21, 2023,Supplements.
I will not suggest over the counter supplements because that would not be ethical. I will only share a natural root vegetable that I juice every day and explain why.
Upon discovering decreased erectile function and decreased semen output, many men start panicking, especially if, like me, had an extremely high sex drive throughout life. Such losses strike at the core of a man's physical perception of who he is, because sex for men is one of the most basic core identity which is part of a man's personality.
The good news, based on "The Tao of Health, Sex, and Longevity, a modern practical guide of the ancient way" by Daniel P. Reid is that ejaculation control is important to overall health and is even more important in later years.
Again, the MIND is a powerful tool, but when discovering decreased erectile function get a medical physical plus labs including testosterone level. My testosterone level is actually within normal limits, despite some erectile loss at times. Your Doctor might want to prescribe Viagra but also be aware that such meds stress out the cardiovascular system so such RX's should be discussed with a physician especially if you have high blood pressure and any other cardiac related issues. I don't take any of those medications due to the serious side effects those medications have.
I juice beets every day. Beets is a source of extremely potent antioxidants including nitrate which is converted naturally into nitric oxide when consumed. Be aware that fresh beet juice WILL TURN YOUR URINE COLOR RED. You are not bleeding to death, it's just what beets do. Can turn stools red as well, but juicing decreases a lot of pulp. YOU ARE NOT BLEEDING TO DEATH!!!
Nitric oxide. Huge amount produced through fresh beet juice. I have a very powerful juicer, so I wash a large beet and cut it in sections, add a large apple, add fresh ginger (another powerful plant) and juice then add to the juice Bai Coco antioxidant fusion. All natural, an extremely powerful drink.
What does nitic oxide do? Increases and benefits blood flow and circulation. Naturally.
The internet is inundated with all kinds of supplements for men regarding erectile function and semen volume. Just be careful, don't panic, and save your money as well as talking with your doctor. Vendors know how distressing male changes are in later life, thus the tsunami of over-the-counter products that exist. Just be aware.
My path is more of a natural one. Plus, every person is different.
Because of the impact erectile function and semen volume can have, one's tendency is to try to fix it. Take a deep breath and see your doctor. What is your testosterone level in your blood? Normal? good. Take another deep breath.
Pleasure can still be achieved with the mind, interaction with a person. It is not the end of the world.
I will not suggest over the counter supplements because that would not be ethical. I will only share a natural root vegetable that I juice every day and explain why.
Upon discovering decreased erectile function and decreased semen output, many men start panicking, especially if, like me, had an extremely high sex drive throughout life. Such losses strike at the core of a man's physical perception of who he is, because sex for men is one of the most basic core identity which is part of a man's personality.
The good news, based on "The Tao of Health, Sex, and Longevity, a modern practical guide of the ancient way" by Daniel P. Reid is that ejaculation control is important to overall health and is even more important in later years.
Again, the MIND is a powerful tool, but when discovering decreased erectile function get a medical physical plus labs including testosterone level. My testosterone level is actually within normal limits, despite some erectile loss at times. Your Doctor might want to prescribe Viagra but also be aware that such meds stress out the cardiovascular system so such RX's should be discussed with a physician especially if you have high blood pressure and any other cardiac related issues. I don't take any of those medications due to the serious side effects those medications have.
I juice beets every day. Beets is a source of extremely potent antioxidants including nitrate which is converted naturally into nitric oxide when consumed. Be aware that fresh beet juice WILL TURN YOUR URINE COLOR RED. You are not bleeding to death, it's just what beets do. Can turn stools red as well, but juicing decreases a lot of pulp. YOU ARE NOT BLEEDING TO DEATH!!!
Nitric oxide. Huge amount produced through fresh beet juice. I have a very powerful juicer, so I wash a large beet and cut it in sections, add a large apple, add fresh ginger (another powerful plant) and juice then add to the juice Bai Coco antioxidant fusion. All natural, an extremely powerful drink.
What does nitic oxide do? Increases and benefits blood flow and circulation. Naturally.
The internet is inundated with all kinds of supplements for men regarding erectile function and semen volume. Just be careful, don't panic, and save your money as well as talking with your doctor. Vendors know how distressing male changes are in later life, thus the tsunami of over-the-counter products that exist. Just be aware.
My path is more of a natural one. Plus, every person is different.
Because of the impact erectile function and semen volume can have, one's tendency is to try to fix it. Take a deep breath and see your doctor. What is your testosterone level in your blood? Normal? good. Take another deep breath.
Pleasure can still be achieved with the mind, interaction with a person. It is not the end of the world.
Posted by proedger
- Nov, 14, 2023,How do you deal with a spouse who has shut down sex totally including watching you masturbate?
I know two men who have solved that situation satisfactorly.
I know two men who have solved that situation satisfactorly.
Posted by proedger
- Nov, 14, 2023,I posted a lengthy post on Older Sex here, but I want to drill down deeper regarding older sex changes and effects on the mind of an older adult male. I am concentrating more on the male because females have the ability to reach orgasm post 65 and well into their 70s and 80s.
With men it is different.
Loss of erectile function and decreased ejaculatory fluid creates a psychological turmoil especially if, like me, one has had a very high sex drive. This gradual loss of sexual function brings about a man to seek medical help, in some cases prescribed medications by a Physician to regain at least one component, erectile function.
I prefer natural methods and cock ring ball sling combination aids.
The second level I have noticed not only here on this site and on the Internet but through frank discussion with other older men a decrease to absence of sexual interest and desire by their spouses. The number of such situations is quite alarming.
Not having spousal support during a challenging experience of decreased erectile function and ejaculatory reduction is not at all helpful and could cause serious depressive states in a man. I mentioned in my previous post that communication channels need to be opened and maintained. Spousal support can be just simply having the wife watch her husband masturbate.
But in many cases many women shut down and there are numerous reasons for that which I'm not going to explore but regardless, the shutdown leaves the husband high and dry, regardless of his stash of Viagra.
Recently, I have had interesting discussions with very close friends regarding the merging of older physical sex changes (decreased erectile function and decreased ejaculatory volume) and the mind. Acceptance has to come first with then the ability to merge the mind with those physical changes in a positive way.
The intact mind is a powerful tool facing the sex challenges of old age.
If possible, one way is to join a local nudist resort to confront body image issues. I have met men in a nudist resort who needed social interaction in a nudist environment who have found that helpful. Visual stimulation other than porn is important. Visual/mind/body.
Ideation of past sexual experiences is also an important tool is meshing body self-stimulation through masturbation. The mind is an incredibly powerful tool and when meshed with the body can result in regained pleasure. Having a wife be with the husband while he masturbates is quite important including touching, but if that is not possible, develop the mind ideations and work on meshing them together. If you separate masturbation as a purely physical function without engaging the mind the experience will not be fulfilling.
One has to work in finding a solution which best fits one's lifestyle.
With men it is different.
Loss of erectile function and decreased ejaculatory fluid creates a psychological turmoil especially if, like me, one has had a very high sex drive. This gradual loss of sexual function brings about a man to seek medical help, in some cases prescribed medications by a Physician to regain at least one component, erectile function.
I prefer natural methods and cock ring ball sling combination aids.
The second level I have noticed not only here on this site and on the Internet but through frank discussion with other older men a decrease to absence of sexual interest and desire by their spouses. The number of such situations is quite alarming.
Not having spousal support during a challenging experience of decreased erectile function and ejaculatory reduction is not at all helpful and could cause serious depressive states in a man. I mentioned in my previous post that communication channels need to be opened and maintained. Spousal support can be just simply having the wife watch her husband masturbate.
But in many cases many women shut down and there are numerous reasons for that which I'm not going to explore but regardless, the shutdown leaves the husband high and dry, regardless of his stash of Viagra.
Recently, I have had interesting discussions with very close friends regarding the merging of older physical sex changes (decreased erectile function and decreased ejaculatory volume) and the mind. Acceptance has to come first with then the ability to merge the mind with those physical changes in a positive way.
The intact mind is a powerful tool facing the sex challenges of old age.
If possible, one way is to join a local nudist resort to confront body image issues. I have met men in a nudist resort who needed social interaction in a nudist environment who have found that helpful. Visual stimulation other than porn is important. Visual/mind/body.
Ideation of past sexual experiences is also an important tool is meshing body self-stimulation through masturbation. The mind is an incredibly powerful tool and when meshed with the body can result in regained pleasure. Having a wife be with the husband while he masturbates is quite important including touching, but if that is not possible, develop the mind ideations and work on meshing them together. If you separate masturbation as a purely physical function without engaging the mind the experience will not be fulfilling.
One has to work in finding a solution which best fits one's lifestyle.