The Curious Hotel

 

You had a busy day yesterday.

Just yesterday mornings my wife used her vibrator toy and yesterday afternoon I licked her and then banged her. I love doing oral on her.

Quote from: Sandra on Oct, 18, 2024, I try and do it as much as I can but some days I am just too busy.

Sometimes, when taking a break from work, instead of having coffee or whatever, I'll spend 30 mins stroking, getting really aroused and then masturbating to orgasm. It's probably better for me than that extra coffee too :)
Other times, when I'm feeling low and struggling to concentrate, I'll have one. I feel better afterwards and I can work better too. Which can offset the time taken to cum :)
There's always a way, if you look for it.

One woman whom I saw frequently yrs ago, who didn't masturbate much, about once a week; we would text when we weren't together.  Normal thing nowadays but, back then, the frequency was unique to that friendship. I encouraged her to do it more often and would text to ask what she was doing.  And I'd say to stop it for 30 mins and let's have some solo time together. (Even though 'together' was only in text).
I would do it, she would do it. Sometimes we had a phone chat so we could hear each other.  The good bit was that she got into the habit of a daily orgasm. She remarked that after a while she felt better in herself, more alive, sexier too. Sometimes she needed more and asked me over ASAP. 

I shan't bang on about it any more so I hope you'll make time. Happier, less stressed, more contended within, taking care of your body - that's how Sandra could be :)
(Not suggesting you're not happy or not content but you could be more happy and even more content, within yourself as opposed to others making you feel good)

I try and do it as much as I can but some days I am just too busy.

Quote from: Sandra on Jun, 25, 1975, Understood and although it would be nice to do it EVERY DAY, I really think some of us really do NOT have the time, what with cooking, cleaning, working and shopping.

I get that, of course, but isn't it about priorities?  Health is pretty much everything. I knew a few women in high-pressure jobs and with children and they had within their daily structure, a time set aside just for masturbation. They had sex if/when time permitted but masturbation was included in their routine.

Each to their own, of course.

Understood and although it would be nice to do it EVERY DAY, I really think some of us really do NOT have the time, what with cooking, cleaning, working and shopping.

Quote from: Sandra on Oct, 16, 2024, Masturbation IS really something you do when you are feeling horny and there is nobody around, as you are having sex 2 / 3 times a week you dont really need to masturbate.

That's not really correct Sandra.
Yes if you're feeling horny, masturbation is good. However, according to my doctor, when I asked on behalf of a friend, it should be a daily activity, as regular as brushing teeth, regardless of whether you have sex with someone else.
Particularly for over 35s who generally seem to have less sex than those younger, it can help prevent loss of vaginal elasticity and delay onset of vaginal dryness.

Just sayin'.

Quote from: Red Hedonist Joy on Oct, 18, 2024,

Quote from: Max on Oct, 17, 2024, Question, though, do you always do it the same way?

Sometimes I use my fingers, some I use a vibrator. I often have a cannabis gummy before bed that relaxes me and makes me sensitive.

Thank you Joy.

Quote from: Max on Oct, 17, 2024, Question, though, do you always do it the same way?

Sometimes I use my fingers, some I use a vibrator. I often have a cannabis gummy before bed that relaxes me and makes me sensitive.

Quote from: Red Hedonist Joy on Oct, 17, 2024, At least once a day.

Good girl. x 
I hope you'll always do it every day. 
I am sure you don't need me to explain why. ;)

Question, though, do you always do it the same way? 
I love talking to ladies about their masturbation techniques, especially when we are nude together.  ;)