The Curious Hotel

Hope it's OK to reply to this old thread, but we started having 3somes about 4 years ago.  The first was with a girlfriend of mine who I hadn't seen for years, who was staying with us for the weekend. The kids had gone to bed, and we were all drinking home made cocktails. We'd been given the game "Cards against humanity" the previous Christmas but when we got the box out, it needed 4 players. I had an app on my phone called "Never have I ever" and we started playing that. The sex questions were fun and sometimes I think I surprised my husband, and sometimes my girlfriend surprised me. My husband hardly ever surprised! :)

Anyway, one of the questions was about 3somes. She'd had some, and so had I as a teenager. My husband hadn't. Drink is wonderful at relaxing inhibitions and when my girlfriend suggested having fun with my husband, I didn't hesitate. My girlfriend and I had played together when we were younger. So, that was our first FFM, but not our last. Dating sites helped us find willing people.

I said my husband hardly ever surprises? Well, about 2 years ago, he suggested a 3some with me and another guy, a real MFM. When my jaw had finished dropping, I managed to gasp "Yes!" and our sex life changed in new and exciting ways.  Hope that was OK -  not too boring!

Quote from: Glod on Sep, 18, 2026, Then, well I think you get the picture.

Yes we do 

Personally I prefer shaved but if it's not then I don't complain

Being well groomed and tidy gives the look of someone that cares about their appearance.

I shave so I have an excuse to rub shaving cream then the aftershave balm on myself.

Then a nice moisturiser.

Then some more moisturiser.

Then, well I think you get the picture.

Like Degris's wife, my S was very popular as a teen in the Netherlands and her 'score' when we met was in the 30s. After we got together, and after the birth of our eldest, we got into wife-swapping and swinging, and that would probably bring her number into three figures. You just don't count any more, especially as the swinging was done as a couple, safely and completely consensual, with a lot of fun and laughter. Society often condemns promiscuity but with like-minded people, it's a hobby and one we enjoyed a lot, on all sides.

AJ

Quote from: Bushlover on Sep, 18, 2026, I'm in my 60s and masturbate every day

 

I don't think my wife like the hair on my back. The only concession I make is her demand that I don't grow a beard.

I must admit that I am a take me as I am person.  Am I selfish?

Quote from: Bushlover on Sep, 18, 2026, I'm sure that women often have to accept things with us guys that they don't prefer!

That IS true.

You probably won't be surprised if I say I prefer bush, even if it's just a light trim but especially if it's got some real foliage!      But I've never felt it's for me to tell someone how to look, and I roll my eyes when I read comments from guys saying things like they'd never go with a lass with a bush.  Just be grateful that you're with a beauty, and live and let live. I'm sure that women often have to accept things with us guys that they don't prefer!

AJ

I'm in my 60s and masturbate every day. I've a wonderful wife, but her health limits how horny she feels at times, and I have to respect that.  I'm not much into edging, and love to orgasm every time.  Biggest difference from when I was younger is that my morning wood, if and when it happens, arrives in the middle of the night, rather than at dawn!

AJ