The Curious Hotel

We have a TV in our bedroom. Wife will watch some boring crap on TV like the history channel and asks why I always fall asleep instead of wanting sex,  Night over night. I told her to stop watching boring things on TV. I also told her that TV was put there for one reason, porn.

We do have sex and we don't need the porn to enjoy it. We have toys but she's not interested in them.

We have watched porn and used toys together but that seems like that came to an end.

Would like to see us get back to it

Sandra and Will,
Because sexual desires are a purely individual desires, one should not berate the other for what turns them on sexually. There's a saying that goes "Don't yuck on someone else's yum". If it takes porn or toys to get your sexual satisfied it's perfectly fine. My wife is very open about her masturbating with her favorite toy. I have witnessed it many times.

Quote from: Sandra on Jun, 25, 2026,

Porn isn't just something a man watches however, and on the flip-side, women tend to use sex toys if they want some alone time.
"The real challenge with porn is accepting that it is OK for two people in a committed relationship to have a private solo-sex life.
Since nearly 50% of UK females now own a vibrator, I think its time we were all a little more honest with each other."

Maybe the problem is that people's sex drives rarely match; in any relationship one partner will inevitably have a sex drive higher than the other and so will never completely understand each other.  So what do you do if your partner doesn't want sex and you do?  Well, solo-sex will relieve your sexual tension.  Women are more likely to use vibrators or sex toys when they masturbate, I would guess that most men watch porn when they do. So what?  You are absolutely right, we should all be more honest with each other.

Porn isn't just something a man watches however, and on the flip-side, women tend to use sex toys if they want some alone time.
"The real challenge with porn is accepting that it is OK for two people in a committed relationship to have a private solo-sex life.
Since nearly 50% of UK females now own a vibrator, I think its time we were all a little more honest with each other."

he was the dad of one of my friends and i guess late 30s. he was the first to go down on me and i loved it. i was so ready for his cock and i think he fucked me properly for a first time, like i was to be used like every time.

Quote from: Sandra on Jun, 13, 2026, All you older guys are doing so well. 

Feel free to join us....

All you older guys are doing so well. 

Lately, It's been 3-4 times weekly. I am 72 with a very sexually active wife and she wants sex anytime I'm ready. She get oral from me in between actual intercourse. I'm a very lucky to be able to get erect and ready for sex. I don't shoot much cum anymore but my orgasms are still strong.
My wife pumps me dry often.

  thats good for 67

I masturbate at least 4-5 times a week and sometimes twice in a night. I often masturbate in the early morning hours. It seems as the sun rises, so does my cock, lol. However, I do prefer to cum with a partner. Sharing is caring, after all, lol.