How did you learn to masturbate?

[Sandra]

Lube always helps and feels nice too 

[will1939]

Well, I was addicted to masturbating right from the start and I suppose the reasons are many.  Very shy, overly sensitive,introverted, lacking self-confidence, a mother who was something of a tyrant,  a father who was kind of remote, an older brother who my parents doted on and who bullied me. I knew I was intelligent because I always finished at the top of the class in school back in the days when they actually had exams and the ones with the highest marks finished at the top. I have an excellent memory but cannot recall ever getting a word of praise for anything.  I do recall getting blamed and scolded for naughty things my brother did and him laughing about it.  I was not a happy child.

So I found solace and escape by masturbating, but I worried about that too, the notion that I was masturbating "too much."  It took a long time to overcome that feeling, and it was a Godsend to me when I got the internet, found some masturbation sites and discovered that I was not alone, there were actually many others who masturbated as much or een more than me!

[BendOverMyKnee]

Around 12/13 at school with a another girl,  I had not done it yet so we went to the toilets and she showed me her pussy and where to rub, I pushed my panties down and started rubbing too, I had my first orgasm then she had hers, I left the toilets with wobbly legs and a red face.

My Girl! 

[Sandra]

[snowfire]

I just now read Will's comments for the first time, and they resonate like a great big gong.  In my very geriatric years I also stroke twice or three times a week, not usually dry, but not much.  And sex is on my mind a lot.

[brisjkr]

Well, I was addicted to masturbating right from the start and I suppose the reasons are many.  Very shy, overly sensitive,introverted, lacking self-confidence, a mother who was something of a tyrant,  a father who was kind of remote, an older brother who my parents doted on and who bullied me. I knew I was intelligent because I always finished at the top of the class in school back in the days when they actually had exams and the ones with the highest marks finished at the top. I have an excellent memory but cannot recall ever getting a word of praise for anything.  I do recall getting blamed and scolded for naughty things my brother did and him laughing about it.  I was not a happy child.

So I found solace and escape by masturbating, but I worried about that too, the notion that I was masturbating "too much."  It took a long time to overcome that feeling, and it was a Godsend to me when I got the internet, found some masturbation sites and discovered that I was not alone, there were actually many others who masturbated as much or een more than me!

The same - used masturbating as an escape, worried about it but then found out by the internet there are plenty of others who enjoy masturbating as much or more. It seems to be a fairly common story amongst us avid wankers

[Mindshade]

I was 10, almost 11. I'd had stiffies when watching porn online but hadn't really understood what to do with them. Mum and Dad had split up earlier that year and Mum took me off to the New Forest in Hampshire, where we stayed with an old school friend of hers, and her son, who was 15. They'd turned their 3rd bedroom into a study and store, so I ended up sharing the son's room, sleeping on a camp bed next to his.

He would stream porn on the TV in his room in the evening and he started asking me about masturbating when I got up to fetch something and he saw my erection.  I couldn't bluff my way out of it, so he lifted his duvet and showed me what he was doing.  His erection was much bigger than mine.  I was mesmerised, but any embarrassment I felt just melted away when I started copying him.

After that, we masturbated together a lot, including touching each other.  If it had been a mate I knew better at school, I think it would have been harder to make that first move, but he gave me a confidence, and I am grateful for that.

[Sandra]

After that, we masturbated together a lot, including touching each other.

Wonderful, what a great way to learn, I hope to get to know you better.

[Sandra]