The Curious Hotel

My ex was either not in the mood for anal or begging for anal. I just had to hope for the best. Her favorite position was sitting on my lap - reverse cowgirl - w/ my cock up her ass. She'd play w/ her pussy and finally use a dildo on it to cum. She'd also either be watching herself in the mirror, watching porn or gaping at another couple who we webcammed with.

Anal can be a big YES. Anal is another constricted hole with lots of nerve endings to play with.  Whether it be a real nice butt plug, vibrator or cock, it can be lots of fun.

HOWEVER, anal turns to a great big NO if has not been pre-cleaned to be without feces.  Feeling your cock push around a shit ball is a REAL BUZZ KILL.

So douche bag sized clean outs must be performed a couple times first, and then it is clean sailing for a while.

But that certainly takes the spontaneity out of it.  I have advance a huge amount in my comfort with hard core sexuality but I just can't get past dirty anal.

Wife and i did anal twice and i did it with a few other women previously.  Not a fan and i didn't suggest it any of the times although my penis size is good for anal, i guess.  My stand is i'll take a sweet, slick, self lubricating pussy over a nasty, dry butthole any day of the week.