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A hands-free orgasm is when you have a sexual climax without using hands.
As long as you are not using your hands to stimulate your body, it is considered hands-free. This type of orgasm can be achieved solo or with a partner. ''


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How Does It Work?

There are many ways to achieve a hands-free orgasm. Both people with a vagina or penis can experience a hands-free orgasm.

Here are ways to try to achieve a hands-free orgasm:

Humping and grinding.
People with a vulva or a penis can grind or hump to pleasure themselves. You can use blankets, pillows, or couch cushions to rub against. Use the friction to reach orgasm. You can also use a vibrator to grind on.

Orgasmic breathing. This is the practice of breathing intentionally and specifically to achieve orgasm for sexual pleasure. Using orgasmic breathing can also help elongate your hands-on orgasm. You can do this in a quiet, comfortable place. This method will take practice, but can be done with a partner, too.

Use sex toys. To achieve a hands-free orgasm with sex toys, you'll want to try vibrators that go in underwear for people with vulvas or cock rings for people with penises. Remote controlled vibrators can be done with a partner. Dildos with suction cups can be helpful, because you can attach it anywhere to use it and have an orgasm.

Try water play. This can be pleasurable for people with vulvas. If you have a shower head that detaches you can use that and direct it to your clitoris.

Practice kegels and muscle clenching. This technique works for people with vulvas and penises. Using your pelvic floor, you can do kegel exercises to increase arousal and stimulate your genitals. Try clenching and unclenching repeatedly to stimulate your prostate or clitoris.


Myths About a Hands Free Orgasm

Myth: Only women can have a mental orgasm. A mental stimulation is a useful tactic for having a hands-free orgasm. Both men and women can have a mental orgasm. It's all about stimulating yourself in your mind. Some sex researchers have referred to the brain as the major sex organ.

Myth: You don't need to masturbate if you're in a relationship. Masturbation is a normal part of most people's lives. Even people in healthy relationships will masturbate. There are many reasons that a person will masturbate for the sensation or stress relief, that doesn't require a sexual exchange with their partner.

How to Try the Hands Free Orgasm Safely

A hands-free orgasm can happen with a partner, or you can do it solo. For a fun twist, you and your partner can try to achieve a solo hands-free orgasms together. It's important to know how you regularly orgasm. Hands-free orgasms can be challenging to start with.

Before you start, you should get aroused in order to achieve the orgasm. You'll want to focus on the sensations, and be relaxed and comfortable. 

It might be a good idea to try a hands-free orgasm on your own first before trying it with your partner. Either way, you should try to talk about a plan with your partner for how you see this experience happening.

The first time you try to reach a hands-free orgasm, it may not work. Just be patient with yourself and your partner. Even if you don't orgasm, it's all about the pleasure you feel from it.

The best way to have a hands-free orgasm is to practice. Finding the right technique for yourself takes time and patience. In the meantime, you can become more mindful of the sensations you're feeling by edging, which is getting close but not quite achieving orgasm.

I have tried that and several things about it:
-It was years ago but needed to not ejaculate for over a week.
-High degree of outer stimulation like being watched by several women.
-Had to tweak by hand to get to that spot with contractions but when there would let go and within 15 seconds would ejaculate

I don't think I could do it now. Perhaps.

Would love to be able to do this but when I think hands free I think of it as a mental orgasm. With no touching, toys, or grinding. Just cumming from think off. I've tried this before a couple of times came very close but couldn't take anymore and just had to finish myself off. Really think it would be hot to have one when wife's around.

QuoteThe reason behind the popularity of hands-free orgasms is that they give a more intense feel, and it is enjoyable to spice things up a bit. Naturally, since you won't be using your hands, it means you will need to rely on sex toys.

So this is NOT truly 'hands free' toys ARE allowed ?

I hope it's ok to post in this particular forum. I wanted to share a link to myself cumming, using my wife's Hitachi magic Wand. It has the male masturbator sleeve attachment that my wife found on Amazon of course, lol. I'm happy (and lucky?) that my wife is totally open to my masturbation and she loves mutual masturbation. As well she sometimes just likes to put her head on my chest and watch me cum for her. And I guess not only am I a voyeur, I am a bit exhibitionist - I love it when people watch me cum, either in person or watching my videos.

I love to chat/exchange messages about the above subject(s)

Feel free to comment on anything!
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How long did it actually take for you to cum that way?   I would love to have a hands free orgasm but without any physical stimulation.

Quote from: Brafetish on Oct, 16, 2023, How long did it actually take for you to cum that way?   I would love to have a hands free orgasm but without any physical stimulation.

Well, lol. I got myself hard, then slipped the lubed sleeve on, plugged in 'the wand' and turned it on low, then picked up my phone and hit record. The video is 1 minute long... so.... yeah, 1 minute    I'm actually not a quick cummer, when my wife and I have sex, I can literally last forever. Or when she gives me handjobs, her arm and shoulder gets tired. So we either take turns stroking me or put the wand on. hehe

That's pretty hot! I keep telling my wife I want to get her the Hitachi but she says it's to big and I don't need that.

Love being able to cum quick if I want to.

Quote from: Brafetish on Oct, 16, 2023, That's pretty hot! I keep telling my wife I want to get her the Hitachi but she says it's to big and I don't need that.

Love being able to cum quick if I want to.

Yeah, the wand is a bit cumbersome. I ended up getting a "LuLu" a smaller rechargeable variable speed and mode vibrator for my wife. She loves it. Check it out on Amazon, they have LuLu and many clones too. Just read the reviews.

Her preference with LuLu is for me to be inside of her, s-l-o-w-l-y thrusting as she vibes herself. Guaranteed 'O' for her, and I love that feeling of her climaxing and feeling her pussy contracting rhythmically around my cock as she climaxes. Then I pull out and and lie back, she will give be a lubed up handjob and use the vibe on my balls and down lower. Man, the intense climaxes I have from that are incredible. 
Other times she will just apply the vibrator directly on my 'sweet spot' (the frenulum) and just hold it there until I bust. That feels pretty good too!

I've never experienced "hands free" - other than wet dreams - and I really wouldn't want to pursue it.  For me, my masturbation experience includes a strong focus on stimulating my body ... my thighs, nipples, chest.  It's a whole package / experience, not just ejaculation.